A lot of the time we all fall into self pity. To be brutally honest its generally because of our self centred  nature, to think that the world revolves around us. when in actual fact we are so minuscule in the grand scheme of things. Most of us dwell on the fact that they have no control and that the universe is working against them. The second you believe that you have no control you've lost it all. We decide what happens through our decisions. Self pity will only stunt your growth. Even if your problems are not from your actions and choices. Its important to remember that its your reaction that counts and know that its these experience and problems that will build you.

R x