selfish and selfless, quite obvious really that they're polar opposites but in real life not everything is so black and white. Sometimes unknowingly or subconsciously, we can do things that hurt the people we love (or sometimes the people we love hurt us). Someone can protest a million times that their intentions were pure but without a pure heart that message will never be received. You see, our judgement can be clouded by preconceived ideas (be them good or bad). Relations are complex, takes years to build but moments to brake. Love isn't always enough, actions do speak louder than words and blood isn't always thicker than water. People can love because they need to love someone or because they want to. Although it seems like a clear distinction it isn't so easy to capture, not so easy to comprehend. I'll never regret loving, because love is a beautiful thing and there are people out there that deserve it. Don't let those who didn't, refrain you from giving and receiving the love you deserve. Its not easy, once you've been broken its hard to fix yourself. You'll never be the same. But you will love again, make sure of it! refrain from stereotypes, just because one person was a vilian doesn't mean they all are. Life is simple but we make it complex.

Always refer back to your intentions before doing something, if your intentions are pure so will your outcomes.

R x